Jesus Christ the Fiery Serpent

Rejoice not thou, whole Palestina, because the rod of him that smote thee is broken: for out of the serpent's root shall come forth a cockatrice, and his fruit shall be a fiery flying serpent.

DIVORCE

We are embarking on a search for answers to a serious and perplexing problem:

  To discover the truth about the binding character of the institution of marriage. In our day, virtually every church and denomination has decided that under certain conditions a marriage can be broken and the divorced are permitted to remarry.
  Such permissive rules are taught and preached as the Word of God. Solemnly, pastors claim that they have the full authority of God to encourage divorce under certain conditions and to call God to witness the joining together in marriage of those who have been divorced from their first spouse. What does the Bible say about this?

  To understand the Biblical teachings concerning marriage and divorce, we must start with an understanding of the ceremonial laws of the Bible, where God first spoke concerning marriage and divorce, and their relationship to the world and church of today. Many theologians of our day believe they have in the ceremonial laws a Biblical basis to permit divorce and remarriage. In their misunderstanding of these laws, they have made a caricature of the ceremonial laws and used them to justify divorces.


WHAT ARE CEREMONIAL LAWS?

   When Christ was on earth, He spoke in parables and “without a parable spake He not unto them” (Mark 4:34). Sometimes Jesus told the people He was telling a parable. At other times He simply told a story and from the setting in the Bible we know it was a parable. For example, frequently He would begin a story or a declaration with the words “the kingdom of heaven is like.” When He used these introductory words He was teaching with a parable.
A parable is an earthly story with a heavenly meaning. That is, a parable is a story or illustration taken from the secular world, but the application relates to some aspect of salvation. It might teach some aspect of Christ’s death or resurrection; it might relate to faith in the life of the believer; it might emphasize the sending forth of the Gospel; it might point to Judgment Day.
Because the nation of Israel was an intimate part of the Gospel story, some parables teach about God’s plan for them. For example, in Matthew 21:33-45, the parable of the wicked husbandmen points to the fact that the kingdom of God would be taken away from national Israel and given to others.
In the Old Testament, this teaching method was used extensively; for example, in the types and shadows God employed in the ceremonial laws which outline worship activities and in the civil laws which governed much of the Israelites’ civil pursuits.
These laws are called “ceremonial laws” by theologians because on the earthly, physical level they were to be rigorously obeyed by the nation of Israel. After Christ had hung on the cross, the physical aspect of these laws was no longer to be obeyed. Now only the heavenly meaning inherent within these laws is to continue. When Christ hung on the cross the great curtain that separated the holy of holies from the holy place was torn apart from top to bottom by the finger of God. This signaled the end of the literal, physical keeping of the ceremonial laws. From that time forward the eyes of believers are to be focused only on the spiritual teachings set forth in the ceremonial laws as opposed to the literal, physical keeping of the ceremonial laws.
In fact, when the New Testament church met together to decide which of the ceremonial laws were to be obeyed by saved Gentiles, they concluded in Acts 15:28-29:
“For it seemed good to the Holy Ghost, and to us, to lay upon you no greater burden than these necessary things; That ye abstain from meats offered to idols, and from blood, and from things strangled, and from fornication: from which if ye keep yourselves, ye shall do well. Fare ye well.”
Thus, the observance of ceremonial laws ended. The ceremonial laws ran the gamut from blood sacrifices and burnt offerings to the dimensions and characteristics of the temple building and laws concerning planting fields and weaving cloth.
These laws were to be obeyed by Israel literally, as earthly experiences, but they were to realize that the earthly event was only a shadow or type of some aspect of God’s salvation. In Colossians 2:16-17, God emphasizes this principle: “Let no man therefore judge you in meat, or in drink, or in respect of an holyday, or of the new moon, or of the sabbath days: Which are a shadow of things to come, but the body is of Christ.”
Included within the ceremonial laws were laws concerning marriage. Three of these were especially noteworthy.


BELIEVERS ARE NOT TO BE UNEQUALLY YOKED WITH UNBELIEVERS

  The first of these three laws was given to national Israel when they were coming into the land of Canaan. Deuteronomy 7:2-4:
“And when the Lord thy God shall deliver them before thee; thou shalt smite them, and utterly destroy them; thou shalt make no covenant with them, nor shew mercy unto them: Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy daughter thou shalt not give unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son. For they will turn away thy son from following me, that they may serve other gods: so will the anger of the Lord be kindled against you, and destroy thee suddenly.”
The first part of this commandment points to the spiritual judgment of the unsaved at Judgment Day, when believers will judge those who must be sent to hell for their sins (1 Corinthians 6:2; Revelation 2:26-27). The earthly application is that Israel was to destroy the nations of the land of Canaan.
The second part of the commandment points to the spiritual principle that believers are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. The nation of Israel typifies the body of believers in Christ. The heathen nations surrounding Israel typify the world with its enticements and temptations. Men of the nation of Israel were not to marry heathen wives, and believers are not to become attached or “married” to the world. God declares in Isaiah 52: 11: “Depart ye, depart ye, go ye out from thence, touch no unclean thing; go ye out of the midst of her; be ye clean, that bear the vessels of the Lord.”
In this exhortation the Israelites were effectively told that they were to divorce themselves from that which was unclean. The literal, earthly application meant that if (in violation of Deuteronomy 7:2-4), they had married heathen wives, they were to divorce them. The truth of this can be seen dramatically in the Book of Ezra.
The last two chapters of Ezra reveal a sad and traumatic experience faced by Israel. Under the leadership of men like Nehemiah and Ezra, a number of Israelites had returned to Jerusalem. In Jerusalem they discovered that a number of the men had married heathen wives who had borne children. Ezra 9:2-4:
“For they have taken of their daughters for themselves, and for their sons: so that the holy seed have mingled themselves with the people of those lands: yea, the hand of the princes and rulers hath been chief in this trespass. And when I heard this thing, I rent my garment and my mantle, and plucked off the hair of my head and of my beard, and sat down astonied. Then were assembled unto me every one that trembled at the words of the God of Israel, because of the transgression of those that had been carried away; and 1 sat astonied until the evening sacrifice.”
In answer to the serious charge of violation of the commandment of Deuteronomy 7:2-4, the leaders of Israel made an important and difficult decision. They decided that these men must be divorced from their heathen wives. Ezra 10:2-3:
“And Shechaniah the son of Jehiel, one of the sons of Elam, answered and said unto Ezra, We have trespassed against our God, and have taken strange wives of the people of the land: yet now there is hope in Israel concerning this thing. Now therefore let us make a covenant with our God to put away all the wives, and such as are born of them, according to the counsel of my lord, and of those that tremble at the commandment of our God, and let it be done according to the law.”
The decision was to let it be done according to the law. In Isaiah 52:11 God’s law decreed that those who had become involved with the unclean thing were to depart from that which was unclean. In the practical sense, if an Israelite married a heathen wife, he was to divorce that wife, which was the way Ezra and the other leaders understood that law. Ezra 10:10-12:
“And Ezra the priest stood up, and said unto them, Ye have transgressed, and have taken strange wives, to increase the trespass of Israel. Now therefore make confession unto the Lord God of your fathers, and do his pleasure: and separate yourselves from the people of the land, and from the strange wives. Then all the congregation answered and said with a loud voice, As thou hast said, so must we do.”
We read in Ezra 10:16-17:
“And the children of the captivity did so. And Ezra the priest, with certain chief of the fathers, after the house of their fathers, and all of them by their names, were separated, and sat down in the first day of the tenth month to examine the matter. And they made an end with all the men that had taken strange wives by the first day of the first month.”
Combining the commands of Deuteronomy 7:2-4 and Isaiah 52:11 with the last two chapters of Ezra, we see that the earthly application of the first ceremonial law concerning marriage is that there was Biblical divorce. If a man violated the law of Deuteronomy 7:2-4 by marrying a heathen wife, the law of Isaiah 52:11 decreed that he was to correct that sinful situation by divorcing that wife.
The spiritual or heavenly meaning introduced by these laws continues today. In II Corinthians 6:14-17 God declares:
“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said. I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.
God is emphasizing that believers are not to be unequally yoked to anything that is of the kingdom of Satan. This can be someone we are planning to marry, or it can be any situation in which we become so entangled with the world that it is like being married to the world.
If we find this condition in our lives, we are to separate ourselves from it. We are to turn away from the unclean condition. Turning away from the world is what God was typifying by the Biblical divorce presented in the last two chapters of Ezra.


MUST I DIVORCE MY UNSAVED SPOUSE?

  Since the men of Israel were to divorce heathen wives, what about a mixed marriage of today wherein a believer is married to an unbeliever? Is the believer to divorce the unsaved spouse?<br>
In the New Testament when God says “Israel,” He means the body of believers. The Old Testament men of Israel were not to marry heathen women, and the New Testament men of Israel, the true believers, are not to marry unsaved people. Does that mean that God intends for a believer to divorce his unsaved wife? God answers this question in I Corinthians 7:12-13.
“But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.”
God further answers this question, when He speaks of the wife who is married to the unsaved husband, in I Peter 3:1:
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives.”
God says there is not to be divorce in the case of this kind of marriage. Thus, the earthly application of the ceremonial laws of Deuteronomy 7:2-4 and Isaiah 52:11 is no longer observed. No longer do these laws provide a valid basis for divorce.
The heavenly meaning of these laws continues today. Anyone who is so involved in or attached to the world that he seems married to it is to turn away from it. He is to separate himself from the unholy alliance.
Thus, until Christ went to the cross, a biblically sanctioned divorce was required when man violated Deuteronomy 7:2-4 by marrying heathen women. The earthly aspect of this law came to an end when Christ died (I Corinthians 7:12-13, II Corinthians 6:14-17, I Peter 3:1).
Chapter II


ADULTERY CALLS FOR THE DEATH PENALTY

  A second ceremonial law that relates to marriage is found in Deuteronomy 22:22: “If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.” This law demanded the death penalty for a man and woman who were discovered in an adulterous relationship. Dramatic judgment on those who commit adultery was the literal, earthly application of this command. The heavenly meaning or the Gospel application of this command is found in the New Testament, where this command points to an awesome spiritual marriage. This marriage is revealed in Romans 7: 1-4: “Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be married to another, even to him who is raised from the dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God.” In a spiritual sense every one in the human race is automatically married to the law of God. This marriage is not the result of man’s desire. Rather, it is a marriage in which God has joined two parties together into an indissolvable union. These two parties are the human being on the one hand and the law of God on the other hand. Because God has joined these two together, no man can break the union. No matter how we might wish we were free from our spiritual marriage to the law of God, we cannot be freed from it. It is a marriage between a perfect husband and a very imperfect wife. The husband, the law of God, is absolutely blameless. The wife, however, is the human being, and she is altogether adulterous. We know that the law of God is the husband because Romans 7:1 declares that the law has dominion over the man. In any marriage, the husband is the head of the wife and the wife is to be submissive to the husband. Therefore, within this spiritual marriage, we humans are to submit obediently to the law of God, which is our spiritual husband. Every time we commit a sin we are engaging in spiritual adultery .We are being unfaithful to our spiritual husband, the law of God. The law of God, as the husband, cannot divorce the adulterous wife because what God has joined together cannot be put asunder by man. God takes this principle so seriously that even a perfect husband, the law of God, cannot become separated from the adulterous wife (each human) to which it is married. Spiritual adultery is in view in James 4:4: “Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.” In this verse, God is clearly speaking of the adulterous nature of mankind. Men are adulterers and women are adulteresses because they live in spiritual fornication in relationship to the law of God to which they are spiritually married. Jesus makes reference to the adulterous condition of the human race in Mark 8:38: “Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation; of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he cometh in the glory of his Father with the holy angels.” The adulterous and sinful generation of which He speaks includes the human race throughout time. The kingdom of Satan, to which all of the unsaved of the world belong, is described as the great whore in Revelation 17. Because of man’s sinfulness, he is living adulterously as a harlot. Each sinful act is an act of spiritual adultery. However, even though the law of God, as the husband, cannot divorce the fornicating wife, the human race, there is a way that this terrible marriage can be ended. Because of fornication, the wife deserves to die. Only if she dies can this marriage be brought to an end. Because the husband is absolutely just and holy, it (the law of God) will bring accusation against the adulterous wife, demanding her death. It is this death that was anticipated in the ceremonial law of Deuteronomy 22:22.A second ceremonial law that relates to marriage is found in Deuteronomy 22:22: “If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband, then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.” This law demanded the death penalty for a man and woman who were discovered in an adulterous relationship. Dramatic judgment on those who commit adultery was the literal, earthly application of this command. The heavenly meaning or the Gospel application of this command is found in the New Testament, where this command points to an awesome spiritual marriage. This marriage is revealed in Romans 7: 1-4: “Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man. Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be married to another, even to him who is raised from the dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God.” In a spiritual sense every one in the human race is automatically married to the law of God. This marriage is not the result of man’s desire. Rather, it is a marriage in which God has joined two parties together into an indissolvable union. These two parties are the human being on the one hand and the law of God on the other hand. Because God has joined these two together, no man can break the union. No matter how we might wish we were free from our spiritual marriage to the law of God, we cannot be freed from it. It is a marriage between a perfect husband and a very imperfect wife. The husband, the law of God, is absolutely blameless. The wife, however, is the human being, and she is altogether adulterous. We know that the law of God is the husband because Romans 7:1 declares that the law has dominion over the man. In any marriage, the husband is the head of the wife and the wife is to be submissive to the husband. Therefore, within this spiritual marriage, we humans are to submit obediently to the law of God, which is our spiritual husband. Every time we commit a sin we are engaging in spiritual adultery .We are being unfaithful to our spiritual husband, the law of God. The law of God, as the husband, cannot divorce the adulterous wife because what God has joined together cannot be put asunder by man. God takes this principle so seriously that even a perfect husband, the law of God, cannot become separated from the adulterous wife (each human) to which it is married. Spiritual adultery is in view in James 4:4: “Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.” In this verse, God is clearly speaking of the adulterous nature of mankind. Men are adulterers and women are adulteresses because they live in spiritual fornication in relationship to the law of God to which they are spiritually married. Jesus makes reference to the adulterous condition of the human race in Mark 8:38: “Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of my words in this adulterous and sinful generation; of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he cometh in the glory of his Father with the holy angels.” The adulterous and sinful generation of which He speaks includes the human race throughout time. The kingdom of Satan, to which all of the unsaved of the world belong, is described as the great whore in Revelation 17. Because of man’s sinfulness, he is living adulterously as a harlot. Each sinful act is an act of spiritual adultery. However, even though the law of God, as the husband, cannot divorce the fornicating wife, the human race, there is a way that this terrible marriage can be ended. Because of fornication, the wife deserves to die. Only if she dies can this marriage be brought to an end. Because the husband is absolutely just and holy, it (the law of God) will bring accusation against the adulterous wife, demanding her death. It is this death that was anticipated in the ceremonial law of Deuteronomy 22:22.


ONLY ETERNAL DAMNATION CAN BREAK THE SPIRITUAL MARRIAGE

  The earthly story required that the adulterous wife and the individual with whom she had committed adultery be stoned to death. The heavenly meaning of this terrible punishment is far more serious because the death that is required by mankind’s husband, the law of God, is the second death, which is eternal damnation. Only after we have spent eternity in hell can the marriage between the law of God and each human being be ended. When a man, a woman, or a child dies physically, that death does not end the spiritual marriage to the law of God. On the last day, when the individual is resurrected, his spiritual husband, the law of God, will accuse him of spiritual fornication. Even in hell the law of God is present and demands the full penalty, eternity in hell. Because eternity is forever, there will never be an end of this awesome relationship. God gives us this warning in the ceremonial law of Deuteronomy 22:22. Since Christ went to the cross, the earthly aspect of this ceremonial law is not to be observed. This is shown by Jesus’ reaction to the woman taken in adultery (John 8:1-11). According to Deuteronomy 22:22, she should have been stoned, but Jesus, who is eternal God, nullified that command by telling the woman to sin no more. The spiritual meaning of Deuteronomy 22:22 continues throughout time (Romans 7:1-4). The recognition of this spiritual situation points to our intense need for the Savior.


ONLY DEATH CAN END THE HUMAN MARRIAGE

  The word “bound” in Romans 7:2 is important; it is the Greek word “deo.” It connotes being “shackled together.” For example, in Mark 5:3 it is translated “bind” and in verse 4 as “bound.” Mark 5:3-4: “Who had his dwelling among the tombs; and no man could bind him, no, not with chains: Because that he had been often bound with fetters and chains, and the chains had been plucked asunder by him, and the fetters broken in pieces: neither could any man tame him.” In Acts 12:6 we read of Peter in prison, “bound with two chains.” The word “deo” is found many times in the Bible and is always used in the sense of someone who is tied or shackled. God uses this word to describe the wife’s relationship to her husband. This is seen in Romans 7:2, and also in I Corinthians 7:39: “The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.” In I Corinthians 7:27 we read, “Art thou bound unto a wife?” The binding or shackling of the wife to the husband can be broken only by the death of the husband as Romans 7:2-3 plainly teaches. She is bound to him as long as he lives.


HOW TO BECOME FREE FROM OUR MARRIAGE TO THE LAW OF GOD

  The Bible has a glorious teaching that shows how we can end the spiritual application of this ceremonial law. In Romans 7:4 God gives the way of escape: “Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be married to another, even to him who is raised from the dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God.” What does we have “become dead to the law by the body of Christ” mean? The death required by our spiritual husband, the law of God, is eternal damnation, and this is precisely the death Jesus endured when He took our sins upon Himself. In the atonement He was found guilty with our sins and God poured out His wrath upon Him as punishment for those sins. That punishment equaled the punishment we endure if we had to spend eternity in hell. Romans 7:4 indicates that Christ rose from the dead which is proof that the penalty demanded by the law of God had been entirely paid. Because Christ, our substitute, endured the equivalent of eternal damnation for each believer, each believer has become dead to the former husband, the law of God. Thus, the law of God has no dominion over him. He is dead to the law. He is a new creature; he is born again; and he is free to become spiritually married to someone else. That someone else is Christ. The believer becomes the eternal bride of Christ. God has joined the believer to Christ in an eternal, indissolvable marriage relationship that no man can break asunder. Death can never again occur to either Christ, the husband, or to the believer, the bride; thus, there is no possible way that this beautiful marriage can end. Even though the believer might engage in spiritual fornication (sin), Christ cannot divorce His bride. The law of God, the husband, cannot divorce the fornicating wife (the unsaved person), so, too, Jesus cannot divorce His bride, the person who has become saved. In the human marriage relationship, there cannot be divorce for fornication. What God has joined together cannot be put asunder. Only death can break the marriage. Because the believer was given eternal life at the time of salvation, and because Christ rose from the dead to live forever, Christ can never end the blessed marriage union between Himself and the believer. How marvelous! How wonderful! How magnificent is the grace of God! The law of God is no longer the husband of the believer, and it no longer has dominion over the believer. The law can never again threaten the believer with death, but this does not mean he is no longer related to the law of God. The law of God has now become his friend. The law shows him how to enjoy to the highest possible degree his new relationship with his new husband, Christ Jesus Himself. The believer is no longer shackled to the law of God the way a wife is shackled to a husband. God uses the marriage relationship between the law of God and mankind to help us understand human marriage, and God also uses the marriage relationship between Christ and His bride to help us understand human marriage. Believers are found in every political nation, and national Israel no longer has preferred spiritual status (since the cross); therefore, this law no longer applies to marriages between individuals of different nationalities. Chapter III


GOD’S MARRIAGE TO ISRAEL

  A third ceremonial law that relates to marriage and divorce was introduced into the Bible because of the spiritual marriage (which was entirely different from the marriage of the law of God to the human race), wherein God took ancient national Israel as His wife. Israel, as a corporate, external body, was the representation of the kingdom of God on earth during the historical period from Abraham to Jesus. This marriage relationship was established by God because national Israel typified and foreshadowed the spiritual Israel of God which was to become the eternal bride of Christ. We know this spiritual marriage between God and national Israel existed because of God’s complaint against the spiritual fornication of His wife, recorded in Jeremiah 3:14: “Turn, O backsliding children, saith the Lord; for I am married unto you.” He was not married to them as individuals; individually they were spiritually married to the law of God. He was married to them as a corporate entity. At no time in national Israel’s history were they faithful. Repeatedly they lusted after other gods. What was God to do with His fornicating wife? According to God’s eternal law, death is required for the adulterous wife, but God could not utterly destroy the nation, for Christ was to come out of national Israel. Moreover, national Israel was the seedbed from which the New Testament church would spring forth. God’s plan was to use national Israel as an example of His patience and mercy. In the parable of Luke 13, the fig tree that repeatedly had not borne fruit was to be cut down but was given one more opportunity. If there still was no fruit, it was to be cut down. Today national Israel is a viable nation amongst the nations of the world. Only if it ceases to bear spiritual fruit will it be destroyed. For these reasons and possibly others, God chose not to have his spiritual wife, national Israel, killed, and yet God planned to break His spiritual marriage with national Israel. Once Christ went to the cross, God had purposed to end forever the spiritual relationship He had with national Israel. To accomplish this goal, God introduced another law into the body of ceremonial laws. In order to divorce Israel, God had to introduce a law that would permit divorce. God is the giver and maker of the law, and He may introduce any law He desires. Whatever law He sets forth, God in His perfect righteousness obligates Himself to obey .In His Word in Deuteronomy 24:1-4, God placed a law that permitted divorce for fornication: “When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man’s wife. And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife; Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the Lord; and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the Lord thy God giveth thee for an inheritance.” This law permitted a husband to divorce his wife in whom he had found some matter of uncleanness. (Later we will show that this related to fornication.) The inclusion of this law permitted God to divorce national Israel. We are told this in Isaiah 50:1: “Thus saith the Lord, Where is the bill of your mother’s divorcement, whom I have put away? or which of my creditors is it to whom I have sold you? Behold, for your iniquities have ye sold yourselves, and for your transgressions is your mother put away.” Likewise, in Jeremiah 3:8 we read: “And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.” God continues to reveal the sinful nature of the wife He had married in Jeremiah 3:20: “Surely as a wife treacherously departeth from her husband, so have ye dealt treacherously with me, O house of Israel, saith the Lord.” In the ceremonial law God introduced two dominant laws concerning adultery within a marriage. In the case of Deuteronomy 22:22, both a man and a woman who engaged in the act of adultery were to be put to death. In the case of Deuteronomy 24:1-4, only the wife could be divorced for fornication. No language is employed here or anywhere else in the Bible that even suggests that a wife could divorce an adulterous husband. Because these laws were part of the ceremonial laws, the citizens of the nation of Israel were to obey them. If a husband found his wife in an act of adultery, he was to have her stoned to death along with the man with whom she was caught. If there were some act of obvious fornication, but the wife was not actually caught in the act of adultery, the husband still had the right to divorce her. In the New Testament, Jesus made several references to this law to show that it was rescinded with His coming and to show that Israel had grossly misapplied this law. It is still grossly misapplied by the church as a Biblical basis for divorce.A third ceremonial law that relates to marriage and divorce was introduced into the Bible because of the spiritual marriage (which was entirely different from the marriage of the law of God to the human race), wherein God took ancient national Israel as His wife. Israel, as a corporate, external body, was the representation of the kingdom of God on earth during the historical period from Abraham to Jesus. This marriage relationship was established by God because national Israel typified and foreshadowed the spiritual Israel of God which was to become the eternal bride of Christ. We know this spiritual marriage between God and national Israel existed because of God’s complaint against the spiritual fornication of His wife, recorded in Jeremiah 3:14: “Turn, O backsliding children, saith the Lord; for I am married unto you.” He was not married to them as individuals; individually they were spiritually married to the law of God. He was married to them as a corporate entity. At no time in national Israel’s history were they faithful. Repeatedly they lusted after other gods. What was God to do with His fornicating wife? According to God’s eternal law, death is required for the adulterous wife, but God could not utterly destroy the nation, for Christ was to come out of national Israel. Moreover, national Israel was the seedbed from which the New Testament church would spring forth. God’s plan was to use national Israel as an example of His patience and mercy. In the parable of Luke 13, the fig tree that repeatedly had not borne fruit was to be cut down but was given one more opportunity. If there still was no fruit, it was to be cut down. Today national Israel is a viable nation amongst the nations of the world. Only if it ceases to bear spiritual fruit will it be destroyed. For these reasons and possibly others, God chose not to have his spiritual wife, national Israel, killed, and yet God planned to break His spiritual marriage with national Israel. Once Christ went to the cross, God had purposed to end forever the spiritual relationship He had with national Israel. To accomplish this goal, God introduced another law into the body of ceremonial laws. In order to divorce Israel, God had to introduce a law that would permit divorce. God is the giver and maker of the law, and He may introduce any law He desires. Whatever law He sets forth, God in His perfect righteousness obligates Himself to obey .In His Word in Deuteronomy 24:1-4, God placed a law that permitted divorce for fornication: “When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man’s wife. And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife; Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the Lord; and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the Lord thy God giveth thee for an inheritance.” This law permitted a husband to divorce his wife in whom he had found some matter of uncleanness. (Later we will show that this related to fornication.) The inclusion of this law permitted God to divorce national Israel. We are told this in Isaiah 50:1: “Thus saith the Lord, Where is the bill of your mother’s divorcement, whom I have put away? or which of my creditors is it to whom I have sold you? Behold, for your iniquities have ye sold yourselves, and for your transgressions is your mother put away.” Likewise, in Jeremiah 3:8 we read: “And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.” God continues to reveal the sinful nature of the wife He had married in Jeremiah 3:20: “Surely as a wife treacherously departeth from her husband, so have ye dealt treacherously with me, O house of Israel, saith the Lord.” In the ceremonial law God introduced two dominant laws concerning adultery within a marriage. In the case of Deuteronomy 22:22, both a man and a woman who engaged in the act of adultery were to be put to death. In the case of Deuteronomy 24:1-4, only the wife could be divorced for fornication. No language is employed here or anywhere else in the Bible that even suggests that a wife could divorce an adulterous husband. Because these laws were part of the ceremonial laws, the citizens of the nation of Israel were to obey them. If a husband found his wife in an act of adultery, he was to have her stoned to death along with the man with whom she was caught. If there were some act of obvious fornication, but the wife was not actually caught in the act of adultery, the husband still had the right to divorce her. In the New Testament, Jesus made several references to this law to show that it was rescinded with His coming and to show that Israel had grossly misapplied this law. It is still grossly misapplied by the church as a Biblical basis for divorce.

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ISRAEL’S MISUSE OF DEUTERONOMY 24

  The language of Deuteronomy 24:1-4 was sufficiently unclear that the men of national Israel used it as a basis to divorce their wives for any reason whatsoever. When we understand why, we will better understand Matthew 5:32, a verse some people use to justify divorce for fornication. The key words of Deuteronomy 24:1 are “some uncleanness.” For “some uncleanness” found in a wife the husband had Biblical cause for divorce. What was this sin? The Hebrew word “debar,” which is translated as “some” in the phrase “some uncleanness,” normally means “word” or “matter.” Out of about 2400 usages in the Bible, “debar” is translated in at least 1000 verses as “speak” or “talk” or something similar. In other verses it is translated “word” (at least 770 times). Thus, “word” or “talk” are the dominant meanings of the word “debar.” Less often, but with considerable frequency, “debar” is translated as “act” (52 times), “matter” (63 times), and “thing” (215 times). Thus, we can safely say that in Deuteronomy 24:1, “debar” should be translated as “act,” “matter,” “thing,” or “word.” The Hebrew word translated as “uncleanness” in this same phrase is “ervah,” which is found 54 times in the King James Bible. In more than 50 of these places it is translated “nakedness.” When we examine the places where it is translated “nakedness,” we find that it usually relates to gross sexual impurity. For example, in Leviticus 18 and Leviticus 20, where God sets forth commands prohibiting incest, God employs the word “nakedness” (“ervah”) at least 30 times. Thus, the word “ervah” takes on the meaning “fornication.” In Leviticus 18:8 God warns, “The nakedness [ervah] of thy father’s wife shalt thou not uncover.” A commentary on this warning is found in I Corinthians 5:1: “It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father’s wife.” In this verse, God uses the word “fornication” in connection with sexual impurity between a man and his father’s wife. In Leviticus 18:8, God speaks of this kind of sexual impurity as uncovering the nakedness. Therefore, we can see that “nakedness” or “uncleanness” is synonymous with “fornication.” Bringing these facts together, we know that in Deuteronomy 24:1 God is teaching that if a man found a “word” or a “matter” of fornication in his wife, he could write a bill of divorcement and divorce her. Certain acts of fornication were punishable by death, but if the particular act or word of fornication did not require the death of the fornicating wife, the husband had the right to divorce her. Another understanding of the meaning of “ervah” was what opened the door for the Israelite husband to divorce his wife under almost any circumstance. DIVORCE FOR ANY CAUSE In Deuteronomy 23:12-14 God uses the identical phrase, “ervah debar,” which is the key phrase of Deuteronomy 24:1. “Ervah debar” does not refer to fornication; rather, it refers to ceremonial uncleanness. Deuteronomy 23:12-14: “Thou shalt have a place also without the camp, whither thou shalt go forth abroad: And thou shalt have a paddle upon thy weapon, and it shall be, when thou wilt ease thyself abroad, thou shalt dig therewith, and shalt turn back and cover that which cometh from thee: For the Lord thy God walketh in the midst of thy camp, to deliver thee, and to give up thine enemies before thee; therefore shall thy camp be holy: that he see no unclean thing in thee, and turn away from thee.” The phrase “unclean thing” near the end of this quotation is “ervah debar.” What was the “unclean thing”? In this context it was nothing more than the discharge from a person’s body when he or she felt the call of nature. When a person felt the urge, he was to go outside the camp, dig a hole to receive his body’s discharge, and then cover it so that the surface of the ground would be clean. Actually, any discharge from the body made a person unclean. According to the ceremonial laws of Leviticus 15, any running issue, any kind of discharge from the body, made a person unclean. A woman menstruating was unclean. Someone experiencing diarrhea that spotted his garments was unclean. Therefore, the “ervah debar” in Deuteronomy 23:14 gave the men of Israel tremendous leverage in their marriages. All he had to do was spot menstrual blood on his wife’s garments, or any other discharge that touched her or her garments, and that would serve the hardhearted husband’s purpose. In the intimacy of marriage the opportunities to see “some uncleanness” in one’s wife were numerous. Thus, the men could divorce their wives quite easily. The wife had no security whatsoever. Even if she had not been guilty of fornication, the husband could find plenty of “Biblical” reason to divorce her if this was his desire.


JESUS SETS THE MATTER STRAIGH

  Jesus took issue with this understanding of Deuteronomy 24:1-4. Jesus clarified the law by showing that these verses of Deuteronomy 24 only permitted fornication as a ground for divorce. Matthew 5:31-32: “It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.” Verse 31 relates back to Deuteronomy 24:1-4, the only passage of the Old Testament that relates in a clear way to Jesus’ statement in Matthew 5:31. Jesus points out that ancient Israel had widened the application of the cause for divorce far beyond the scope intended by Deuteronomy 24:1, where the cause had to be a specific word or matter of fornication. Matthew 5:31 states that all that was required for divorce at that time was the writing of divorcement. Jesus, therefore, restates Deuteronomy 24:1-4 in verse 32. Jesus accomplishes three things by this restatement. First, He underscores the Jews’ total disregard for the sanctity of marriage and will show that the cause for divorce was to have been something quite adulterous. Second, He reveals the awful sinfulness of divorce in that it causes the divorced wife to commit adultery even though she, by her own action, might be innocent of adultery. Third, He restates Deuteronomy 24:2-4 to show that the wife who was divorced should not remarry.


DEUTERONOMY 24 ALLOWS DIVORCE ONLY FOR FORNICATION

  The first phrase we must understand in Matthew 5:32 is, “saving for the cause of fornication,” which relates closely to Deuteronomy 24:1.
The word “saving” is the Greek word “parektos,” which is used in only two other places in the Bible. It is translated “except” in Acts 26:29: “And Paul said, I would to God, that not only thou, but also all that hear me this day, were both almost, and altogether such as I am, except these bonds.” In this verse “parektos” carries the meaning “without,” or “without these bonds.” The word “parektos” is translated “without” in II Corinthians 11:28: “Beside those things that are without, that which cometh upon me daily, the care of all the churches.” Here the Biblical meaning of “parektos” is “without.”
Returning to Matthew 5:32, we discover that the English phrase “for the cause” is the Greek word “logos,” which is translated as “word” more than 200 times in the Bible. It is also translated in a few instances as “matter” or “thing.” Thus, “logos” can mean either “word” or “matter” or “thing,” and is the Greek equivalent of the Hebrew word “debar” used in Deuteronomy 24:1.
The word “fornication” used in Matthew 5:32 is the Greek word “porneias” which is always translated “fornication.”
Therefore, the phrase “saving for the cause of fornication” can be accurately translated “without a word or matter of fornication.” This is surprisingly close to the literal rendering of the Hebrew “ervah debar” of Deuteronomy 24:1. Remember, the usual translation of “debar” was “word” or “talk” or “matter” and the usual translation of “ervah” was “nakedness” in the context of fornication.
Thus, we see evidence that Jesus was focusing in on Deuteronomy 24:1 by the specific language He used in Matthew 5:32. He was teaching that the “uncleanness” of Deuteronomy 24:1 was not meant to be understood as some ceremonial uncleanness such as menstrual blood or a diarrhea discharge. Rather, the “uncleanness” was meant to present fornication as the only cause for which a man could divorce his wife.


DIVORCE CAUSES AN INNOCENT SPOUSE TO BE ADULTEROUS

  Christ introduces an additional principle in the next phrase in verse 32, where He says: “causeth her to commit adultery.” How are we to understand this? Let us begin by reading verse 32 without the phrase “saving for the cause of fornication.” It now reads “whosoever shall put away his wife…causeth her to commit adultery.” In this statement Jesus introduces a very serious matter: While it is altogether wrong for a divorce to occur, should it occur, such a divorce causes the wife to commit adultery. Does this merely mean that the divorced wife becomes prone to adultery because, if she should marry someone else, that marriage would be adulterous as Romans 7:2-3 teaches? No. There is no evidence that Jesus is teaching this. He is simply saying that if a man divorces his wife, regardless of how holy or pure she might be in herself, she has been forced by the divorce itself to commit adultery. The very act of the divorce caused her marriage to become adulterated and in that sense she has been caused to commit adultery. Jesus underscores the terribleness of the sin of divorce. Not only does the husband who desires the divorce sin, but he also causes his wife to sin, even if she does not want the divorce. This becomes understandable when we remember that those who have married have become fused by God into one flesh, a divine union which no man can break apart. Therefore, if a man breaks apart that which God has joined together, the union has been adulterated. However, if the wife had committed fornication before the divorce, then she herself committed adultery. Based on Deuteronomy 24:1, the man had a right to divorce his wife in such a case. Since she was adulterous before she was divorced, the husband’s act of divorcing her was not the cause of her sinful state of adultery. Jesus does not call attention to Deuteronomy 24: 1 to indicate that this command is to continue in force throughout time. He is simply showing that while Deuteronomy 24:1 was in force, a man had to discover actual fornication in his wife to divorce her and to put her away for any lesser cause was a violation of that command. Since that command was repealed (as we shall see when we study Mark 10 and Matthew 19), Jesus definitely is not teaching that fornication is a cause for divorce. Therefore, this verse is not dealing with the question of whether or not there is any cause for divorce. Rather, Jesus is emphasizing the seriousness of the sin of divorce.


THE WOMAN WHO IS DIVORCED BECOMES DEFILED IF SHE MARRIES AGAIN

  The third point that Jesus makes involves a restatement and clarification of Deuteronomy 24:2-4. In the King James Bible, the use of the word “may” in the phrase “she may go,” appears to say that the fornicating wife who was divorced was free to remarry. However, in the original Hebrew the word “may” is not included; thus, the Bible is not teaching she may go and be another man’s wife. This can be seen by the language found in verse 4, where God indicates she will have become defiled if she remarries. Effectively, God is teaching that if the divorced wife becomes another man’s wife, she will be defiled so that she cannot return to her first husband. This principle is reiterated and expanded in the last phrase of Matthew 5:32 where Jesus declares that “whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.” Because the divorced wife who has remarried has become defiled as a result of the remarriage, it logically follows that the man who married her has entered into an adulterous marriage. Jesus emphasizes the fact that such a man has indeed committed adultery.


DEUTERONOMY 24:1 ALLOWED ONLY ONE-HALF OF ISRAEL TO DIVORCE

  The law that permitted a man to divorce his wife for fornication applied to only half of Israel. Deuteronomy 24:1 only permitted the husband to divorce his wife. This was because, in its ceremonial nature, the law was pointing to the coming divorce of national Israel. No provision of any kind was made for the wife to divorce the husband because no aspect of God’s salvation plan or of God’s dealing with national Israel included the possibility of national Israel divorcing God. Therefore, a wife could never divorce a fornicating husband. In her relationship to her husband, she was under the universal law given from the beginning of creation that there was not to be divorce for any reason whatsoever. Thus, in the case of the law of God (the husband) being spiritually married to the individual (the wife), there never was a time when divorce for fornication or for any other reason was allowed. Also, in the nation of Israel, the wife could never divorce the husband for his fornication. Only the husband could divorce the wife for fornication because that was part of the ceremonial law which pointed to God’s coming divorce of corporate, national Israel. In summary, we see that Deuteronomy 24:1-4 taught the following principles: 1. A husband could divorce his wife only if she were found guilty of fornication. 2. The wife, who was guilty of fornication and, as a result, was divorced, would become defiled if she married someone else. Thus she was to remain single. 3. No permission was given to the wife to divorce her husband for any reason whatsoever. In Matthew 5:32 Jesus reiterated the basic principles of Deuteronomy 24:1-4 and expanded them to teach: 1. A husband who divorced his wife for any reason other than fornication caused her to commit adultery. 2. Any man who married a divorced woman committed adultery. What does the Bible teach concerning the continuation of the law of Deuteronomy 24:1-4? The spiritual, heavenly meaning of these verses ended when Jesus hung on the cross. The veil of the temple was rent asunder, which signaled the finality of God’s divorce from national Israel. Because it was written into Old Testament law in order that God might divorce national Israel for its spiritual fornication, we have reason to suspect that it (like other ceremonial laws), ceased to have any physical application after the crucifixion. The Bible shows that this law was rescinded by the Lord Jesus Christ. The pharisees came to Jesus with a question concerning divorce, and we read in Mark 10:2: “And the Pharisees came to him, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.” Their question must relate to Deuteronomy 24:1-4 for it is the only Old Testament passage that speaks of the possibility of a man divorcing his wife. This can be seen in Jesus’ answer in Mark 10:3-4: “And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you? And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away.” Deuteronomy 24:1-4 is clearly the passage that Jesus is addressing as He continues to teach. In verse 5 Jesus explains why this command had been inserted into Old Testament law: “And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept.” It was because of the hardness of the hearts of ancient Israel that the law was given to allow divorce for fornication. Did God want to provide relief to the husbands by setting forth a law that permitted them to divorce if their wives were involved in fornication? Or did He give the law because the husbands would be so unforgiving of their fornicating wives that, because of the hardness of their hearts, these unforgiving husbands were allowed to divorce their wives? These possibilities do not make sense. God lays down laws that help us to live more holy before Him rather than to allow us to live sinfully. Only when we realize the truth as to why God inserted this law into the ceremonial laws of the Bible can this verse be understood. The phrase “hardness of heart” relates to that which is rebellious, and rebellion against God is spiritual fornication. God gave this law so that He, as the husband of national Israel, could divorce His fornicating wife. Because of the hardness of heart, or spiritual fornication of national Israel, the law was given. Thus, once God had divorced national Israel, this law had no further purpose. Therefore, in Mark 10:6-9, Jesus directly and plainly rescinds the Old Testament command: “But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And they twain shall be one flesh; so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Jesus indicates that it was never God’s intention for divorce to be permitted. It is true that temporarily God did open a very narrow window permitting a man to divorce his fornicating wife, but this was only so that God could divorce fornicating national Israel. Jesus says in Mark 10:11-12: “And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.” Deuteronomy 24:1-4 allowed a husband to divorce a fornicating wife. A wife was given no right whatsoever to divorce a fornicating husband. Jesus has rescinded the husband’s right to divorce a fornicating wife, and He emphasizes the impossibility of Biblical divorce from both directions, the husband divorcing the wife and the wife divorcing the husband. In Mark 10:11-12 God underscores another vital principle: A divorced man or woman cannot become remarried. According to verse 11, if a man remarries, he commits adultery against his first wife. Why is this? We learned in Romans 7:1-4 that the wife is bound to her husband as long as they both live. Therefore, even though a divorce may have seemingly broken the marriage relationship, from God’s vantage point the man and wife are still bound to each other. Therefore, if the man takes another wife while his first wife is still living, he is committing adultery .He is adulterating the lifelong union God has made between this man and his first wife. Likewise, verse 12 emphasizes that the wife may not marry someone else after divorce. Even though she is legally divorced, in God’s sight she is still bound to her first husband. Therefore, she commits adultery if she marries another while her first husband is still living. The principle of the binding relationship of the wife to the husband is repeated in I Corinthians 7:39: “The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.” In I Corinthians 7:10 we are instructed, “Let not the wife depart from [that is, divorce] her husband.” In I Corinthians 7: 11 God says, “and let not the husband put away his wife.” All of the Bible’s teachings are consistent and in agreement. In Luke 16:17 Jesus makes reference to the eternal nature of the law of God: “And it is easier for heaven and earth to pass, than one tittle of the law to fail.” Having indicated the perpetual nature of the law of God, Jesus immediately addresses the question of a man divorcing his wife. He exhorts in Luke 16:18: “Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.” In this statement we find the same truth we have learned from Mark 10:2-12, Romans 7:1-4, and I Corinthians 7. There is not to be divorce! No exceptions! Chapter IV MATTHEW 19:9 We want to look carefully at the one verse that has been abused most consistently in man’s efforts to find a Biblical basis for divorce. Matthew 19:9, which immediately relates to Deuteronomy 24:1-4, has the appearance of allowing divorce for fornication. Matthew 19:9: “And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whose marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.” Many theologians read this verse and quickly conclude that it teaches there can be no divorce except in the case of fornication. We have already seen in our study that there is no Biblical cause for divorce. Therefore, we can be sure that this one verse, Matthew 19:9, cannot allow divorce for fornication or for any other reason. If we concluded otherwise, we would have before us a major contradiction. The Bible is one harmonious whole. While it may have statements that appear contradictory, we know that they are not actual contradictions. They only appear to be contradictions because our understanding of the questionable passages remains incomplete. Let us assume for a moment that we must base our whole understanding of divorce and remarriage on this one verse, Matthew 19:9. What would we learn? Matthew 19:9 apparently teaches that a man may divorce his wife for fornication. But notice: there is no suggestion that the wife may divorce the husband for fornication. There is not even the slightest implication or indication that the wife can divorce the husband. In fact, nowhere in the Bible is there any statement that teaches that the wife can divorce the husband. Also the verse does not justify the husband for divorcing his wife for any reason except fornication. Additionally, Matthew 19:8 tells us that Moses allowed the husband to divorce his wife for the cause of fornication only because of the hardness of the husband’s heart: “He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.” The term “hardness of heart” refers to someone who is unsaved, someone who is in rebellion against God. . Thus, if anyone insisted on understanding Matthew 19:9 without regard to any other teachings of the Bible, the most that he could see in this verse would be that a husband could divorce his wife only in the case of fornication, and such a divorce would be an indication of the husband’s unsaved, rebellious spiritual condition. Therefore, even on the basis of Matthew 19:9, no true child of God would ever countenance the thought of divorce. Rather, he would realize that he is called upon to repeatedly forgive his wife for the sin of fornication just as he is to forgive any other sin. When we consider what modern day theologians have done with this verse, we should be skeptical of their conclusions, for when they decide there can be divorce for the cause of fornication, they immediately conclude that not only can the husband divorce the fornicating wife, but the wife also can divorce the fornicating husband. Yet neither this verse nor any other verse in the Bible allows a wife to divorce her husband. Thus, when we hear such teachings, we should suspect gross violation of the true understanding of this verse. “Does the Bible teach that fornication is grounds for divorce?” The answer is emphatically “No!” In Matthew 19:8, Jesus emphasizes two important truths. First, this command was inserted into the law book primarily to give God a way to divorce national Israel because of their spiritual rebellion, their hardness of heart. Second, He is indicating that this was not God’s eternal plan for human marriage for “from the beginning it was not so.” Jesus emphasizes in Matthew 19:8 that a man was no longer to put away his wife for fornication, so it does not make any sense at all that our Lord would reintroduce in the next verse the command He has just rescinded.


NO DIVORCE FOR ANY REASON

  A correct understanding of Matthew 19:9 is forthcoming if we go to the opening sentence of the paragraph in which Matthew 19:9 is found. In Matthew 19:3 we read: “The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?” Jesus answered them in verse 6: “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” In verse 7 the Pharisees asked about Deuteronomy 24:1, which permitted divorce for fornication. Jesus answers their question in verse 8 and indicates that Deuteronomy 24:1 was rescinded. In verse 9 Jesus returns to the Pharisees’ original question: Can a man put away his wife for every cause? In verse 8 He indicates that fornication was no longer to be a cause for divorce. In verse 9 He covers every possible reason other than fornication and indicates that any other reason was also an invalid cause for divorce. Effectively, He is saying in verse 9, “whosoever puts away his wife for any reason [in addition to or other than or except] for fornication [which we have just seen in verse 8 to be an invalid cause for divorce] and marries another commits adultery.” The word “except” (the Greek “ei me”) takes on the sense or meaning of “in addition to” or “other than” in this context. This meaning of “ei me” is fairly common in the Bible. For example, in Matthew 19:17 Jesus says: “there is none good but [ei me] one, that is, God.” This verse could be read: “there is none good [in addition to or other than] one, that is, God.” Likewise, in Mark 8:14 we read: “Now the disciples had forgotten to take bread, neither had they in the ship with them more than one loaf.” The phrase “more than” is also “ei me.” Here, too, we could translate: “neither had they in the ship with them [in addition to or other than] one loaf.” Many other examples could be given, but these two should suffice to show that in Matthew 19:9, Jesus is simply covering all other possible causes for divorce “except,” “other than,” or “in addition to” fornication. He has already eliminated the cause of fornication in verse 8. Jesus has twice answered the question posed by the Pharisees in verse 3 concerning divorce for every cause. He has first answered it in verses 4-6 by saying there is not to be divorce for any reason. Then in verses 7 and 8, He specifically teaches that fornication cannot be a cause for divorce. In verse 9 He applies this teaching to all other causes for divorce, except the cause of fornication, which He had just covered in verse 8. The removal of fornication as a cause for divorce so shocked the disciples that they said to Jesus in verse 10: “His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.” They apparently could not envision a marriage wherein a husband had lost all right to divorce his wife. The disciples were astounded and dismayed that there could no longer be divorce. Their reaction to the statements Jesus made in Matthew 19:4-9 underscores the fact that Jesus had rescinded the command of Deuteronomy 24:1-4. The earthly application of the other ceremonial laws came to an end when Jesus came, and the application of the ceremonial law of a man divorcing his fornicating wife also ended with His coming. In fact, not only did the physical application of this law end, but the spiritual application ended as well. The last half of Matthew 19:9, “and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery,” is almost an exact duplication of Luke 16:18. We saw in Luke 16:18, Matthew 5:32, and Mark 10:11-12, that God indicated that a man was not to marry another wife after divorce, and anyone who married the divorced wife committed adultery. Clearly the law stands today that as long as the divorced spouse lives, there is not to be remarriage after divorce. The Bible records that when Joseph, the stepfather of Jesus, thought Mary had committed fornication because she was with child, he, being a just man, sought how to put her away (Matthew 1:19). The fact that the Bible says he was a “just” man underscores the fact that God was absolutely holy and righteous when He divorced national Israel as a corporate body. God divorced them as a corporate body, not as individuals. God could not divorce them as individuals within the nation because He was not married to them on that level. The law of God as the husband was married to them as individuals and in that relationship there could be no divorce. No matter how adulterous any man became, he remained under the law of God, even as the wife remains under the dominion of her husband. God used national Israel to display various types and figures which were shadows of the spiritual reality that was to be fulfilled in Christ. Their corporate marriage to God was a picture of the marriage of Christ to the eternal church. God married Israel when it was nothing, and the believer becomes the bride of Christ when he is spiritually dead in his sins. God lavished his love on his wife, national Israel, by showering them with physical and spiritual blessings, and He showers spiritual blessings on His eternal bride, the true believers in Christ.


THE UNSAVED SPOUSE BREAKS THE MARRIAGE

We will now examine a verse that is sometimes used as a Biblical basis for remarriage after divorce. I Corinthians 7:15: “But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.” Does I Corinthians 7:15 teach that if the unbelieving spouse insists upon a divorce, the believing spouse is no longer bound in that marriage, and therefore is free to remarry? We know from our previous studies that the conclusion that a divorced person can remarry is erroneous. The key word that we need to understand is the word that means “under bondage.” It is the Greek word “douloo” which means “to enslave.” It is from the Greek word “doulos” which is translated “slave,” “bondservant,” or “servant” in the Bible. It is commonly used to refer to a man’s relationship to Christ. Paul was a servant (doulos) of Christ (Romans 1:1). We are servants of Christ (Colossians 4:12; II Timothy 2:24). On the other hand, we may be the slave of sin (II Peter 2:19). The word “doulos” or “douloo” is never used of the relationship that exists between husband and wife. Insofar as the Bible is concerned, the husband is never the slave of the wife; the wife is never the slave of the husband. God says in I Corinthians 7:27, “Art thou bound unto a wife?” but this word “bound” is entirely different from “doulos” or “douloo.” It is the Greek word “deo.” It is a word that gives the sense of two things being bound or tied together. The prisoner is bound (Mark 6:17). The donkey was tied (Mark 11:2), The husband and wife are bound to each other (1 Corinthians 7:27,39; Romans 7:2), but the idea of being a servant or a slave is not found in the word “deo.” Nowhere else in the Bible is “douloo” identified with the husband-wife relationship. How are we to understand its use in I Corinthians 7:15? The answer can be seen if we properly understand the problem being addressed by this verse. Let us look at a situation common to our day. The Christian wife knows there is not to be a divorce under any circumstance, but the unsaved husband insists on a divorce. He refuses to obey God’s Word because he is unsaved. God’s Word means little or nothing to him. What is his wife to do? Is she bitterly and relentlessly to fight her husband in order to prevent the divorce? God has an answer for this situation. She is called to peace. She is not to fight. In her bondage to Christ, earnestly desiring to do God’s will, she is not to fight the divorce. She is not bound to Christ’s written law to the point that she is to engage in such a fight. If her husband divorces her, she cannot remarry as long as her husband is living (Romans 7:2-3). Instead of marrying, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband as I Corinthians 7:11 says: “But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.” I Corinthians 7:15 is not intended to give aid or comfort to those seeking divorce. When carefully understood in the light of everything else the Bible teaches about marriage, this verse is found to be in perfect agreement with the principle that there is not to be divorce for any reason.


ART THOU LOOSED FROM A WIFE?

  Another passage that is sometimes made to serve as a rationale to permit divorce is I Corinthians 7:27-28:
“Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife, seek not a wife. But and if thou marry, thou has not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.”
It is apparent and certainly Biblical to understand the phrase “seek not to be loosed,” as a command not to seek divorce. That conclusion agrees with everything we have seen in the Bible concerning marriage. But verses 27 and 28 go on to say, “Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned.”
With this statement in mind, the argument is often presented that if the first word “loosed” in verse 27 refers to divorce, then the second word “loosed” must also refer to divorce. This interpretation makes the verse seem to teach that someone who is divorced can remarry. However, that conclusion, when tested by all the passages of the Bible that speak of divorce and remarriage, is shown to be wrong. Nowhere else in the Bible does God permit remarriage after divorce if the wife or husband still lives. Therefore, we should know that we have arrived at a wrong conclusion concerning the meaning of this verse.
First, we assumed that the word “loosed” refers only to divorce. Actually, there are two ways a husband could be loosed from a wife; she could have been divorced or she could have died. Therefore, verse 27 is simply saying, “Art thou bound” [Greek deo which means shackled to], unto a wife? seek not to [desire to] be loosed. “That is, do not desire that God would take her in death, the Biblical means of ending the marriage; and do not desire to be divorced from her, the unbiblical way to end the marriage. If you are loosed from a wife, verse 28 declares you can remarry. Since there is clear evidence in the Bible that you cannot remarry if you have been divorced, we can be sure that in the second usage of the word “loosed,” God cannot have divorce in mind. If He did, this verse would contradict everything else in the Bible that concerns marriage and divorce.
The only possible meaning in regards to the second usage of the word “loosed” is that the shackle that has bound the wife to the husband has been broken by her death. That conclusion is in total agreement with passages like Romans 7:1-4.
As a matter of fact, even the first usage of the word “loosed” in I Corinthians 7:27 cannot refer to divorce because Romans 7:2 stipulates that only if her husband is dead is a wife loosed from the law of her husband. In other words, even if a husband divorces his wife, she is still bound to him insofar as God’s law is concerned Therefore, when God speaks of a man being loosed from his wife, He can be referring only to the loosing caused by the death of his wife.
Thus, I Corinthians 7:27-28, like all of the other passages we have examined, gives no assent whatsoever to the idea of divorce or remarriage after divorce.
Chapter VI


LET NOT MAN PUT ASUNDER

  In this chapter we will look at the marriage union itself. Is it just a partnership between two people who stand on the same ground? Is it merely a contract that is analogous to any other contract with which we might be familiar? We have begun to discover that marriage is not a contract; it is not a partnership. It is a union -a union of such consequence that two people, as it were, have become fused into one being. The Bible uses the language: “they are no more twain, but one flesh” (Matthew 19:6). The intensity and reality of this fusion are described in I Corinthians 7:3-5: “Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.” In this statement God establishes the principle that the two who are married are to live in the greatest possible intimacy. Their bodies belong to each other. Except for brief spiritual activity, they are not to deny their bodies from each other. No other physical relationship exists in the world like this relationship. They are to live as one body because God has ordained that they are one flesh. God emphasizes that this union is not made by man but by God (Mark 10:9). Does this refer only to a Christian marriage under the authority of the church? If that were true, then all non-Christian marriages would not be marriages; they would simply be a man and a woman living together in an adulterous relationship. God is speaking of every marriage in the human race. We know that God has all marriages throughout the history of the world in view because Mark 10:6-8 takes us all the way back to our first parents who were created to be husband and wife. Mark 10:6-8: “But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.” When two people are joined in marriage and consummate that relationship in the marriage bed, it is a union made by God. This is indeed a remarkable truth. It is hard to find any other physical human experience wherein we can say conclusively, “This is God’s action.” Even the marriage that was consummated as an act of rebellion against God is still a marriage which God has made into an indissolvable union. This does not make God guilty of sin, because God cannot sin. Rather, in accomplishing His divine purposes, God utilizes the sinful desires of man. For example, God allowed the brothers of Joseph to commit the dastardly crime of selling their younger brother into slavery so that later, Joseph, as Prime Minister of Egypt, would be able to save them from starvation. Likewise, God can utilize a sinfully contracted marriage for His own purposes. God informs us that once a marriage is consummated, a union has come into being by the action of God. For that reason, God speaks of the wife being bound to the husband (Romans 7:2; I Corinthians 7:39). If the wife is bound to the husband, then it logically follows that the husband is bound to the wife. Earlier in our study, we saw that the word “bound,” which God uses in these verses, means to be “tied to” or “shackled together.” Remember that God declared that only He could break the marriage union. He does this by claiming one spouse in death.


THE MARRIAGE UNION MAY NOT BE BROKEN BY MAN

  Counselors who encourage quarreling spouses to try a trial separation are in violation of God’s Word. Divorce, which is so much in vogue in our day, is a terrible violation of God’s edict concerning marriage. Rather than encouraging separation, the Bible insists that the bodies of those who are married belong to each other (I Corinthians 7:3-5). No matter how badly the marriage is going, that principle is to be observed. Woe unto us when we take these matters into our own hands. God underscores the sacredness of the marriage union in Mark 10:11-12: “And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and many another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.” Romans 7:2-3: “For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.” Jesus restates the principle in Luke 16:18: “Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.” Surely the Bible could not be any clearer! There is not to be separation! There is not to be divorce! Why has God put such emphasis on the sanctity of marriage? God in His mercy has placed great protection around the family. These laws protect the husband and the father so that he is included in the family as long as any of the other family members are living. The wife and children are protected in the same way. In our day, divorce has become so rampant in our land that we know of wives who are trying to get along without husbands, husbands who have rejected their wives, and bewildered, broken children who hardly know who their parents are. Indeed, when the church first began to rewrite the rules of the Bible to permit divorce, it was the beginning of the end for families. The wind was sown, but the whirlwind is being reaped. There is a staggering amount of evidence in the lives of those from broken families to indicate that the church committed drastic sin when it tampered with God’s marriage laws. It is like the mythical Pandora’s box, the lid of which could not be closed when sin began to pour forth. We have begun to see the reality of the magnification and terrible consequences of tampering with God’s sacred laws. There is another reason why God enters into every marriage and claims responsibility for fusing two people into one flesh. God uses the human marriage as a picture of Christ and the believers; God fuses the husband and wife into one flesh, and through the Lord Jesus Christ, He makes Himself one with the believers. This unique oneness is spoken of in many different ways in the Bible. The believer is “in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1); Christ is in the believer (Romans 8:10); God the Holy Spirit dwells within the believer (Romans 8:11); and Hebrews 2:11 declares: “For both he that sanctifieth and they who are sanctified are all of one: for which cause he is not ashamed to call them brethren.” The believers are called the bride of Christ (Revelation 21:2,9). God develops the human marriage as a type or figure of Christ’s relationship to the believer in the beautiful language of Ephesians 5:28-32: “So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church. For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.” In this passage, God carefully declares that the joining of the husband to the wife as one flesh points directly to Christ and the church. Thus, God has placed His divine hand on the marriage union because He has made it a type or figure of the intimate and eternally-binding relationship that exists between Christ and the true believers, His church. Even as the husband and wife live together in the greatest intimacy, so Christ lives in similar intimacy with the believer. Even as God has fused the husband and wife together into one flesh, so God has fused Christ and the believer together in such a way that God can use the same phrase, “one flesh,” when speaking of this spiritual union. Death is the only way the physical union of husband and wife can be broken, but the believer in Christ has eternal life. That is, he can never die spiritually. Since Christ is eternal God, who died once at the cross and will never die again, there is no possibility of breaking the union between Christ and the believer. Neither the bride (the believer), nor the husband (Christ) can ever die. Therefore, no sinful action on the part of the believer can threaten his marriage with Christ. Even as in human marriage there cannot be divorce for fornication, the spiritual marriage between Christ and the believer cannot be broken by the spiritual fornication of the believer. What tremendous comfort and assurance we should receive from this glad truth!


Father, which hath sent me, draws him: and I will raise him up at the last day.

Eternal Security

   John 6:37 37 All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out. We see here that it is the Father that giveth and only after the Father giveth a soul does he come to Christ. And all that He giveth come to Christ. So if the Father giveth and a person chooses not to come, Jehovah is lying. Ezek 34:11-13 11 For thus saith the Lord GOD; Behold, I, even I, will both search my sheep, and seek them out. 12 As a shepherd seeketh out his flock in the day that he is among his sheep that are scattered; so will I seek out my sheep, and will deliver them out of all places where they have been scattered in the cloudy and dark day. 13 And I will bring them out from the people, and gather them from the countries, and will bring them to their own land, and feed them upon the mountains of Israel by the rivers, and in all the inhabited places of the country. Here we see election in it fullest. Jehovah is seeking out his flock. In order to seek something you first must know who or what you seek. Here He is seeking His people, diving them from them which are not His people. Israelites here apparently are the chosen ones. Yes some if not all may haven fallen away, but we must see it was the nation, to fore show the spiritual nation that is chosen here. John 10:28-29 28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand. 29 My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father’s hand. (KJV) The Father giveth to Jesus, and they shall never perish. No back sliding. It may appear to son of men that back sliding happens but Jehovah lets you go so far. ( David) Rom 8:38-39 38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, 39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (KJV) 1 Pet 1:3-5 3 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, 4 To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you, 5 Who are kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation ready to be revealed in the last time. (KJV) Prepared for you from the foundation of the world Eph 1:4-5 4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love: 5 Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will, (KJV) Predestinate: Foreordain; in advance Matt 25:34 34 Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: (KJV) Acts 15:18 18 Known unto God are all his works from the beginning of the world. Rev 17:8 8 The beast that thou sawest was, and is not; and shall ascend out of the bottomless pit, and go into perdition: and they that dwell on the earth shall wonder, whose names were not written in the book of life from the foundation of the world, when they behold the beast that was, and is not, and yet is. (KJV) As he hath chosen us in him Deut 7:6 6 For thou art an holy people unto the LORD thy God: the LORD thy God hath chosen thee to be a special people unto himself, above all people that are upon the face of the earth. (KJV) Ps 135:4 4 For the LORD hath chosen Jacob unto himself, and Israel for his peculiar treasure. (KJV) Isa 41:8 8 But thou, Israel, art my servant, Jacob whom I have chosen, the seed of Abraham my friend. (KJV) Matt 11:25-26 25 At that time Jesus answered and said, I thank thee, O Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because thou hast hid these things from the wise and prudent, and hast revealed them unto babes. 26 Even so, Father: for so it (KJV) Matt 24:22 22 And except those days should be shortened, there should no flesh be saved: but for the elect’s sake those days shall be shortened. (KJV) Matt 24:24 24 For there shall arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders; insomuch that, if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect. (KJV) Matt 24:31 31 And he shall send his angels with a great sound of a trumpet, and they shall gather together his elect from the four winds, from one end of heaven to the other. (KJV) John 10:16 16 And other sheep I have, which are not of this fold: them also I must bring, and they shall hear my voice; and there shall be one fold, and one shepherd. (KJV) Rom 8:28 28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. (KJV) Rom 8:30 30 Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified. (KJV) Rom 8:33 33 Who shall lay any thing to the charge of God’s elect? It is God that justifieth. (KJV) Rom 9:23-24 23 And that he might make known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory, 24 Even us, whom he hath called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles? (KJV) Rom 11:5 5 Even so then at this present time also there is a remnant according to the election of grace. (KJV) II Th 2:13 13 But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth: (KJV) 2 Tim 2:10 10 Therefore I endure all things for the elect’s sakes, that they may also obtain the salvation which is in Christ Jesus with eternal glory. (KJV) Titus 1:1-2 1 Paul, a servant of God, and an apostle of Jesus Christ, according to the faith of God’s elect, and the acknowledging of the truth which is after godliness; 2 In hope of eternal life, which God, that cannot lie, promised before the world began; (KJV) James 2:5 5 Hearken, my beloved brethren, Hath not God chosen the poor of this world rich in faith, and heirs of the kingdom which he hath promised to them that love him? (KJV) 1 Pet 1:2 2 Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through sanctification of the Spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied. (KJV) 1 Pet 2:9 9 But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light: (KJV) Rom 8:29 29 For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren. (KJV) Rom 9:11 11 (For the children being not yet born, neither having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works, but of him that calleth;) (KJV) Rom 11:7 7 What then? Israel hath not obtained that which he seeketh for; but the election hath obtained it, and the rest were blinded (KJV) Eph 1:11 11 In whom also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestinated according to the purpose of him who worketh all things after the counsel of his own will: (KJV) Eph 1:4-5 4 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love: 5 Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will, (KJV) God choose us then makes known his good pleasure. Eph 1:9 9 Having made known unto us the mystery of his will, according to his good pleasure which he hath purposed in himself: (KJV)


ONE FLESH - MARRIAGE : MAN AND A WOMEN !

Genesis 2: 20 – 25

{2:20} And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him. {2:21} And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; {2:22} And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. {2:23} And Adam said, This [is] now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. {2:24} Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. {2:25} And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
Genesis 2: 7-8
{2:7} And the LORD God formed man [of] the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.
{2:8} And the LORD God planted a garden eastward in Eden; and there he put the man whom he had formed.
When God created Man out of the dust of the earth, He created him whole and perfect in every way.  But being God He saw, It was not good that the man should be alone, So He made him a help meet for him.  What God did was to cause a deep sleep to fall upon Adam and he slept: and He took one of his ribs. And the rib the Lord God took from man he made women. What God had done was to split the Flesh, making two individuals  out of one, flesh.  Only now split, they were not complete when apart, for now they would complement one another only through MARRIAGE.

Here is the beauty of Marriage.

{19:4} And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made [them] at the beginning made them male and female, {19:5} And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? {19:6} Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
God set up the institution of Marriage in order to return man to His fullness. Bone of my bone flesh of my flesh.  Through the institution of Marriage God brings man back to his fullness.  He makes him whole again.  Not man with man or women with woman. Fullness is only complete when man is brought back to his roots so to speak and joins in Marriage with a women.  THIS IS GOD’S PLAN

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